Yup, marriage is last on my list. Marriage shouldn't be last on your list - their gear is worth like 400k now lmao lol when I got married, my wife came with 0 stats cept for 90 Riding, 60 charm, and 100 trade and a full T6 load out. Which I then took for myself, just considering the gear part of the dowry.
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mount and blade 2 bannerlord marriage